Haters

jealous eggs

 

Today the colloquial word “hater” has become very popular. The word is generally used to describe a person who takes issue with another person’s success or good fortune.  Many reasons could be suggested for the “haters” negative attitude. Maybe haters object because from their perspective the recipient of good is undeserving, or unworthy of reward. There are others who think with a scarcity mind-set   concluding if one person wins the other person automatically has to lose. They suppose there must not be “enough” for everybody therefore—one’s winning is at their expense. However, “haters” have not yet realized they don’t have to put out the bright light of others in order for their own lights to brightly shine.

The reason haters struggle with celebrating anyone else, criticize, disapprove, respond with insults and offer spontaneous put downs has nothing to do with the accomplishments of others. The haters attitude is a direct reflection of their own personal insecurities and low-level of self-worth. Their jealous actions broadcast true personal feelings they hold at present about themselves.

Haters wish they had the boldness to do what others have done. They have yet to discover the freedom, flare, and finesse they too possess. They’d rather complain than compliment. It’s difficult to give to others what one doesn’t know how to give to themselves. Their courage and confidence is suppressed by fear. For them it’s easier to be critical than it is to try. Fear of failure and subjecting themselves to the same ridicule they’ve dished out –keeps them on the side lines of life. Those who are hated by the hater create the reality for their lives haters dare to even dream about. The best retaliation for the hated is an authentically successful life fully lived.

 

My authentic thought: Being your personal best should be a priority. No one ever has to apologize for that or feel bothered by nay sayers who have a problem with a person being their best, achieving at their best, or receiving the best.

In peace and love,

Dr. Free

Authentic thoughts are thoughts that are genuine and sincerely expressed. Authentic thoughts reverberate with other authentic individuals so they have an irresistible urge to ponder and or respectfully respond from their own unique perspective.

Express and share your authentic thoughts. Make a post. Thanks so much for reading the post.

 

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Author: Dr. Free

Dr. Free is a veteran educator. Her area of expertise is African-centered education consulting. She is a life learner who is passionate about truth, liberation, and justice. Dr. Free strives to be true to herself. She expresses herself in a way that enhances the lives of others and she enjoys giving others the space and encouragment to do the same.

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