People have been known to do a lot of different things to cure loneliness. They work to connect with others, expand their circles by joining groups of various kinds and some even get married or launch on an aimless quest in search of Mr. or Mrs. Right. Sadly, they find that loneliness still seems to be like a close constant companion. The question of the matter then becomes, What’s the real cure for loneliness? If the cure isn’t adding other people what’s the logical answer? Maybe the answer to removing loneliness is not about connecting with others but loneliness is about connecting and being in alignment with ourselves.
When we are out of personal alignment the result is loneliness. Far too many of us think that being alone has to be a lonely place. Loneliness and being alone are not the same. When we are alone we can just “be” with ourselves. Being in alignment means to be parallel or straight with our true nature or higher self. It may sound too ridiculously different to be true but instead of looking outside of ourselves to cure loneliness try looking within.
I’ve tried going within through meditation, affirmations, mindfulness, and envisioning when feelings of loneliness tried to overwhelm me. Over the years, with practice, I’ve become better at it. Actually, now I see loneliness as a highway rumble line. Loneliness is a signal that I’m going out of alignment and I need to “center” myself within the middle of my lane. Friends and relationships with others have their place but no relationship is more important than the one that we have with ourselves. In fact, giving our relationship with ourselves priority improves the quality and type of relationships we have with others.
Thank you for reading. I would truly enjoy reading about your truth on the topic. Please share your authentic truth. Enlighten us.
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In peace and light,