Going Beyond the Obvious Part 3


ARE WE TOO DRINKING THE KOOL-AID? Jim Jones mass suicide 1978

We have been socially conditioned to accept degrading perspectives about Black people in media. In this society, being Caucasians means superiority and being a Black or Brown person means inferiority. In order to rise and overcome this restraining social condition, we must become literate so we understand how to rightly navigate these murky waters of deception. If you already haven’t, I implore you to search within to determine your social responsibility.

I understand we feel excited and proud to see reflections of ourselves on television and on the big screen but at what cost???? Are we part of the ratings count for programming for ratchet, degrading shows and shows that promote white supremacy? We have a right to free speech but should it be at the cost of our integrity? Does it mean that we personally should dishonor our own community? What actually does it mean to be an adult? Are there limits or boundaries for our behavior? Where should our allegiance lie?

If you do the research for the word program you’ll find the original purpose of the program to program the mind–mind control. How are we allowing ourselves to be programmed? How many of the choices that we make are influenced by media images. How many of our ideas are seeds blossomed from something we heard or saw in the media? Often we are not even aware because we are sublimally influenced.

Here’s another very interesting clip!!!!

The television is designed to tell lies to our vision. Courtney Garcia wrote in The Grio, on September 27, 2013 that African-Americans watch more television than any other group of people. http://thegrio.com/2013/09/27/nielsen-report-confirms-blacks-watch-more-tv-than-any-other-group/. That means one can safely conclude, we are also the ones being bamboozled, hoodwinked and swindled by all the marketing gimmicks most often. Garcia reports “African Americans have 1 trillion dollars of buying power in this country while the African-American household earns less than market average, their annual retail spending accounts for 87 percent of total market retail spending.” Advertisers don’t even spend additional money to entice us to watch. Is our greater presence on television and in the movies finally more opportunities for our community or a power play by the establishment as a means to an end? They know we are already watching. Advertisers are laughing all the way to the bank while we are being hypnotized by the television. It’s not just entertainment! Master Teacher Anthony Browder presents a thought-provoking lecture well worth listening to.


Family, let’s rise from our slumber! If you have already risen– rise higher! We are a powerful, creative, and innovative people. Let’s use our gifts, talents and resources to better our own communities. Vampires are high jacking our culture. In the words of film maker Spike Lee it’s time for us to WAKE UP! Let’s gain an awareness of ourselves, our actions, our surroundings and our social responsibility.

My authentic truth:

We must be courageous enough to make socially responsible decisions about what we see and hear and then be willing to stand in our own truth. The truth is the truth if no one believes it and a lie is still a lie even if everyone believes it. If we must interact with media, let’s be very selective, do so critically and seek out forms of entertainment than add to our lives in a positive way.

 In love and peace,

Dr. Free

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Going Beyond the Obvious Part 2

What we see and hear always has volumes of meaning.


When receiving information, it is advantageous to listen with a third ear, look with a third eye and always consider the source from which the information is coming. I know it sounds a bit odd and no I am not suggesting anything weird. Nonetheless, listening with the third ear means first acknowledging clearly what is stated. But don’t stop there. Next, discern the hidden message or intent that is really being proclaimed. Listen critically. Play the devil’s advocate. Sometimes messages are presented with a subtle whisper as such and not as a boisterous edict. It’s like looking at the set for the décor of a stage play. If our focus is only on the actors, one might miss the symbolism displayed on the backdrop and how it adds meaning to theme of the play.

Looking with a third eye means reading between the lines. The information between the lines is not an overt but subliminal message. The real purpose of the deliverer’s message may be disguised—draped in popular music with singing celebrities we are fond of. Unknowingly our agreement with the appealing beats and rhythms cause us to subconsciously agree with the intent of the message. Embedded codes send subliminal messages to our brains to arouse misplaced feelings of desire. Too often we are enticed and drawn in by sexual innuendos, symbols, colors, and imposed ideas about cultural norms due to lack of appropriate awareness.

Finally, consider the source. News is not just about the facts anymore and it has not been that way for quite some time. Most news broadcasts have political agendas. Further evening newscasters do too much unprofessional bantering as a means to entertain or boost ratings. Something is wrong when pop culture and crisis in global affairs are both front page news. Know for certain there is a definite reason for it all.

It is important to listen with a third ear, look with a third eye and always consider the source. Responding to information in this manner places us on the road of consciousness. Too many African Americans are anesthetized to the point that we are unaware of the reality of what is really going on around us. We have become inoculated with the venom of untruth. Ever since we came to this country as slaves in 1619 the agenda of the white men for whom the constitution was written has been to devalue, underestimate and marginalize people who were not like them. This includes Native Americans, Caucasian   women and minority groups. The Black Codes of 1865, the movie Birth of Nation in 1915, the Tarzan Series of 1966 are just a few early examples of the means by which propaganda was spread to the masses.  Malcolm X said “The media’s the most powerful entity on earth. They have the power to make the innocent guilty and to make the guilty innocent, and that’s power. Because they control the minds of the masses.”

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In love and peace,

Dr. Free


Going Beyond the Obvious Part 1


(1) Listen with Third Ear    

(2) Who said it?                  

(3) Look with a Third Eye                                                             

The world that we live in is saturated with all types of different messages. The origins of the messages that permeate our society are sometimes religious, cultural, political, capitalistic, or just personal in nature. There are indeed soothing positive messages of love and peace that can warm our hearts and bring bright smiles to our faces. These messages are typically birthed from universal truths. On the other hand, destructive messages of hate can engender anger and rebellion. The intent of many of these messages is outright manipulation, control, and deception presented in the spirit of capitalism. These messages relentlessly come toward us from countless directions. Our children parrot them when they come home from school, media relentlessly announces them on commercials, radio, the web, in cinema, and prime time news. Within this present information age in which we live it is not always easy to determine what has credibility.

It is difficult to see through the clouds of propaganda, the whitewashing of revisionist history and the schemes of marketing in advertisements. In my opinion, the unfortunate reality is that most of what we hear must be sifted through.  In other words, much of what we hear and see should not be taken at face value. What do you see and understand in the clips below?

The clips are dated but the truth revealed is timeless!

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In peace and love,

Dr. Free



Mindfulness Means NOW

Embracing NOW is a new a level of being and living.

My ears are turned to whomever utters words that captivate me and resonate with my being. I listen to whom I’m drawn to whether it be friend, stranger or foe. I can learn something from everyone if I am willing to notice the lesson and pay attention.

I am not a fanatic of anyone. I read whoever has something to say that I am interested in or drawn to at the time. It could be a child, a store clerk or a person in front of me in line at the bank. I do appreciate the contributions of those who have helped to add to my life along the way both directly and indirectly.

Simply put, my goal is to seize the moment with awareness! How about you? Learning to live in the now positions us to live at an entirely different level of existence. Whenever we fully embrace the moment we elevate ourselves from mindlessness to mindfulness. It’s easier to see the rainbow in the clouds and our lives become more of an eventful pleasure rather than something to be endured.

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Have you ever been driving and wondered how you’d arrived at your destination? Truly you were in the car but your mind was miles away. Are you truly present when others are talking to you or is your mind elsewhere? When you take a shower or bath are you thinking about the comfort you the feel from the warm water sloshing between your toes? Or are you yelling at the kids and trying to ignore the knocks and voices on the other side of the bathroom door. When you eat are you savoring every bite chewing each one at least twenty times? Or are you woofing it down—finished and wondering what you ate while you’re still hungry? When you walk from one point to the next are you enjoying each step and taking time to smell the flowers along the way or are you just trying to hurry up and get there? In this rushed society too many of us have the next thing on our mind!

There are times when reflection is absolutely necessary. However, a majority of the time it is personally advantageous for our minds to be in the present moment. Our focus should be on what is—not what will be or what was.  Our families, jobs and a plethora of other demands can keep us running through life like it’s a sprint when life is meant to be an enjoyable marathon of a journey.


Are you free? We arrive at another state of being when we learn to bask in the moment and savor the flavor of our experiences like tasting a new wine. Now is the only thing that is certain. Let’s not waste it! The present moment is a unique gift. Receive it! Take this moment and sit in stillness. Just try it for 60 seconds. Pay attention to what you hear. Try to relax and quiet your mind. It may help jut to pay attention to your breathing—each inhale and exhale. If you like, do so to the count of three or four.  Additionally, the picture below may help. Sit and imagine being there and hearing the sounds of the waves—feeling the cool wet sand between your toes. Feel the warmth of the sun on your skin. Just relax in moment. That’s mindfulness meditation. That’s how manifestation begins. That’s embracing the now rather than allowing time to control you. Oh, what a feeling….

Beach scene

In love and peace,

Dr. Free

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Our eyes behold countless scenes and images within our lifetime and it is up to us to determine for ourselves what we think about what we see. Sometimes we will call what we see beautiful and other times we won’t. We do not exist in this world alone. As we journey our own path we will more than likely meet a wide variety of people from differing walks of life. Their experiences helped to develop and shape their perceptions, ideologies and expectations from the people and the world at large. We have a definite right to whatever opinion we form about these people—if that’s how we choose to spend our time. However, they owe us no explanations for who they are and how they exist in the world. Maya Angelou said we will probably forget what people said but we won’t forget how they made us feel.   Maybe the people that made us feel loved and appreciated are people you and I would also call beautiful.

Have you ever heard a song whose lyrics moved you toward a defining moment in your life? You may call the song beautiful while no one else even notices. Why did the song elicit such a different response? The old adage is true! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Cultural conditioning has influenced our personal ideas of beauty. Within certain cultural constructs some appearances and ways of being are rejected.  The ridiculous one aspect of cultural conditioning is the it inclines us to be like others rather than embracing and celebrating our unique individuality. Behaving in this manner causes us to ignore and dismiss the beauty we encounter in the world and often the beauty we should behold when we look in the mirror.

Trying to look like someone or become just like someone else is a waste of time. No one else can be YOU like you can. The color of your skin, the texture of your hair, size of your feet, shape of your nose and lips all makes you uniquely you. Do you call what you see when you look in the mirror beautiful? You should. No one else’s opinion should be more important to us than our own. You are an original priceless masterpiece! Loving yourself means truly accepting yourself for the beautiful person you were created to be.

My authentic thought:

We are beautiful Black women with a wonderful culture to honor and fully embrace. It is unnecessary to align ourselves with what society deems beautiful. Actually, society is in denial about Black beauty. It’s more than interesting that others pick and choose to emulate certain aspects of Black beauty without acknowledging the origin.

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Growth is fortunately a significant reality of good living. When the state of our existence is healthy and the quality of life consistently improves growth is inevitable. The key then to personal growth is making certain that our outlook from within our personal habitat for life is personally nurturing. Now this does not mean that everything around us has to be positive and perfect—that’s never going to happen. Nor is love and respect from everyone we meet a necessary conduit for growth. The old adage is true. Life is not about what happens to us. Life is about how we respond to what happens to us. Our unique perspective determines whether our experiences add to or subtract from our lives. When we respond to life’s problematic circumstances as opportunities to become we will experience personal growth by leaps and abounds.

I have concluded that personal growth comes when we honor our commitments and goals, forgive ourselves and release the need for perfection.  Honoring our commitment means keeping the promise we made to ourselves on the good days and the bad days—during favorable and unfavorable conditions. Quitting is not an option. Commitment is standing firm on our own convictions. We set ourselves up for failure when we compare the commitments of others to our own. Even when personal goals are the same the path one person takes to get there could be totally different from someone else’s route. The process of reaching our personal goals can only be accomplished by climbing from our own foundation of commitment.

Secondly, making mistakes is part of the process of living. Therefore, forgiveness of self is necessary for growth. Unforgiveness sucks the life from our souls and stagnates our growth.  Even healthy balanced lives do not have error free zones. The most valuable lessons are learned from falling down not winning.  Winning is usually the culmination of gleaning from many lessons learned. Got a whole lot of adversity going on? Good. The Creator says class is in session! The universe will respond to all of your intentions so act according to your desired outcome. Some venture to say there are no mistakes just lessons to learn. As long as we fall forward, (applying what we learned) we will grow and even win from time to time. In those moments our seeds of knowledge bloom into flowers of wisdom. I personally win, every time I learn a lesson from this wonderful journey called life. I’m always trying to learn something cause winning in my life is motivational fuel for the journey.

Finally, we must fully embrace our growth at each phase. Have you ever looked at old photos with embarrassment or regret? Why? What would have made that moment better? You knew what you knew, nothing more—nothing less! It has been said by many elders that when we know better we do better. Too often we look at past photos or reflect on moments in our history with clearer lenses of new knowledge. Of course, if you knew then what you know now things would be different. However that is not the case. We made the best choices or not at the time simply because that’s who we were. We had to be that person then to be who we are today. Don’t remember  your past or present development for that matter with regret. Change the story you tell yourself about what happened. Highlight the good and honor the valuable lessons you have learned. Only then is the time well spent and we are equipped and ready to move forward.

A farmer wholeheartedly accepts the labor of tilling the soil and preparing the earth. He or she is privileged to plant the seed and does not discount the joy of participating in beginning something new. Further the farmer commits to the process of caring for seed, the seedling, the finally full grown plant and harvesting the fruit. Each phase is crucial the process and just as important. The farmer wisely sets right expectations for each phase of growth and development.  So, embrace each phase of your growth with a grateful heart. Every growth phase is part of the unique human process of becoming. You were everything you needed to be then and everything you need to be now—that’s perfect!

In love and peace,

Dr. Free

My authentic thought:

Life is a journey. We delude ourselves if we hope to reach a final destination. There is always more to do and more to learn if we make ourselves availible. Let’s surrender to the process and enjoy the ride.

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Malcolm X vs Martin Luther King: Debate

Martin Luther King Jr. is remembered as a Christian man of peace. So much so, that he received the Nobel Peace Prize. He is considered a prominent leader of the civil rights movement. King demonstrated valiant restraint and an immovable non-violent disposition even when others were egregiously violent with him. His efforts were the catalyst for changes in the law and integration. Today his legacy is celebrated all over the world. His dream of integration still compels people to make efforts to be amicable with people different from themselves.

Malcolm X was a Muslim man of peace but was intolerant with those who were violent with him. He demonstrated noteworthy self-control as well and believed in adherence to the law and its enforcement. Like King, Malcolm X further believed that he had the right to public protest. He understood his obligation to protect his family, and fellow brothers and sisters had to be upheld by any means necessary. Minister Malcolm was also very instrumental in the Black community. Malcolm X encouraged Blacks to be proud and demand respect. He thought it was more important to direct our energies toward strengthening our own communities rather than trying to integrate.

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My Authentic Thought:

Self knowledge and self love cause individuals to walk in divine purpose. People who know who they are and unwaveringly love themselves are also less tolerant of the inconsiderate foolishness of others and wise enough to use their energies in ways that are of great benefit to themselves and their community. Most unfortunately, due to aged yet refined oppressive systems, African-Americans do not have adequate knowledge of self. If we did nothing would prevent us from furthering our own interests.  Knoweldge of self is absolutely essential.

  • Is either position of King or Malcolm out dated—antiquated even? Should African-Americans be doing something different to bring about the positive change we long for?
  • Should we be concerned? Is change necessary?
  • Do we need change? If so, who is responsible in bringing about the change?
  • Who has the right perspective of the European? Malcolm or Martin?
  • What’s the right plan?

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Hotep, (Peace)

Dr. Free